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How To Lose a Friend (On Purpose, the Right Way) December 10, 2009

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I was asked a very interesting question recently. The woman said…

“How do I cut ties with a friend who has been a best friend of mine for about 5 years, but annoys me like crazy, and is simply bad for my health, but is a core member of my favorite group of friends and is a loyal customer of my business?”

My response:

Because you met people through that person doesn’t mean you need to remain knowing that person. You don’t “owe” them and they do not “own” you because of this. If you had to choose between him buying from you or putting up with all of this, which would you choose?

She replied:

I want him out. But he’s a great person, a great artist, but I just can’t be around him anymore.

My response:

If you are aware of the way we attract like vibrations, then you know Law of Attraction so this should come as no surprise. Everyone is a mirror. The things we most like and most dislike about others are usually qualities we share. If you can locate the part of you that is most like his good side and most like his not so good side, then you can begin to strengthen the good matching parts of yourself and let go of the parts that match the things you don’t like to see in him. Because of Law of Attraction and the Laws of Manifestation and the nature of reality, this will cause you to draw to you more of the qualities you like, and become free of those qualities you don’t want to encounter from anyone.

You may have outgrown him. Which means he seems more distant in now many ways–the ways in which you clash and are vibrating in different places. But he doesn’t seem distant enough for your taste in the physical sense yet because he yet lingers in your life experience. You see, he is going to fizzle away if you stick to growing your best qualities and letting the rest go. If he isn’t choosing to grow at the rate you are, and in the direction you are choosing to go, then that’s life and you’ll have to be at peace with him not being around. Would it be relatively easier to not call or text him anymore, or the like? If so, then you can just not take those actions. Following your bliss means doing what feels good and right for you. No one requires you to put bliss on the back burner at anytime, and if they do, then they were present in your life to teach you this lesson. So be grateful to them and you can let them go in peace.

She said:

In the past I have accidentally not called or communicated with him for a period of time and he would say “Why are you ignoring me?”and then at parties he starts being weird around me acting like we have to make up or something and says things like “You’re the best” and I just want to get away.

My response:

The best thing you can do is not be anything like him. Opposites do not attract, they only seek for and draw to them what they desire to become. You want to be something more and so leave out the rest and you’ll find only those like you, around you. The rest will be drawn away from you naturally. You never have to have “that talk” or “break up”. It will work out by design. Your design.

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DreamCatz: Marmalade (#2) December 1, 2009

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This piece is titled “DreamCatz: Marmalade”

by Rayna Tamarin

“DreamCatz: Marmalade” The second piece in my DreamCatz collection of virtually dyed cats! Kids love my candy colored cats! For anyone who loves quirky art. =^•x•^= Meowzah!

This is the second installment of my DreamCatz collection of colorfully hand colored cats. They have been virtually dyed, never for real. DreamCatz will become a series of art pieces made by myself in my spare time. They can be purchased as framed prints. Each will be signed by myself, the artist. The sizes of the prints vary depending on the original size of the piece (some can be enlarged and then printed, while some are shown ‘actual size’ only). These will be perfect gifts for children and lovers of fantasy and whimsy all around! Email me at rayna@raynatamarin.com to request your framed, signed print before Christmas and the Holidays. I’ll ship to anywhere in the world. Payment is through PayPal. Price: $45

DreamCatz: Bright Star (#1) November 25, 2009

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This piece is titled “DreamCatz: Bright Star” by Rayna Tamarin

“DreamCatz: Bright Star” The first piece in my DreamCatz collection of virtually dyed cats! Kids love my candy colored cats! For anyone who loves quirky art. =^•x•^= Meowzah!

This is the first installment of my DreamCatz collection of colorfully hand colored cats. They have been virtually dyed, never for real. DreamCatz will become a series of art pieces made by myself in my spare time. They can be purchased as framed prints. Each will be signed by myself, the artist. The sizes of the prints vary depending on the original size of the piece (some can be enlarged and then printed, while some are shown ‘actual size’ only). These will be perfect gifts for children and lovers of fantasy and whimsy all around! Email me at rayna@raynatamarin.com to request your framed, signed print before Christmas and the Holidays. I’ll ship to anywhere in the world. Payment is through PayPal. Price: $45

That’s What Friends Are For November 22, 2009

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Here is some information on the subject of friends.

I know friendship is a touchy subject in a world where people rely on other people in order to feel good about themselves. A lot of the time people want to know how they can determine whether their friends are ‘real’ or phony. In a world of illusion, what is real?

Well my friends, Love is real.

So what are friends for? Let’s talk about this.

I see how friends can become an important subject, however exactly where is the need to discuss friendship coming from? If this type of question haunts you, then we are at a level where we can now hear and better understand the role of a friend.

Why spend so much time and effort on other people in how they relate to and feel towards us? The only thing we need to look at when it comes to other people is how they mirror us, and in doing so, we are given clear guidance in order to navigate ourselves. Everyone we know, we have attracted and created from the inside out for us to experience ourselves through.

A “fair weather friend” is in alignment to us at that time. A “bad weather friend” is there because they are in alignment with us at that time. We never really have to go further than that because the rest is getting into details that are illusory.

When we ask, someone is there to answer. But we’ll only be able to experience from the place where we are emotionally, spiritually and mentally. So only people who are also where we are emotionally, spiritually and mentally will be heard and only to the extent that we allow ourselves to hear them. If you are having a bad day, then someone will come to you who is able to hear your down perspective. That means that that person must be at that down perspective as well otherwise they will have to lower or raise their perspective in order to hear you and provide a presence in your experience at that time. That person will never lift us up or bring us further down unless we are fully allowing their influence. No one can control our perspective but we may allow influence. It is best to remain clear and unaffected. We should never expect someone else to meet us at our level. There are plenty of other versions of the mirror who will reflect back to us exactly where we are. There is no need to force the issue or attempt to control the perspective or level of another person. It is us personally who must change if we want our friends to change.

In order to attract only fulfilling and satisfying feeling relationships, we must already be fulfilled and satisfied. We only share in the happiness and love that is our true nature. We do not create that happiness, although many of us do resist it from time to time. If we can purposefully live with a full allowing of fulfillment which is our true nature, only those who are fulfilled and satisfied will find us (or really be created by us). When we look into these friends a.k.a. mirrors we say, “They make me happy.” But they do not. They are merely reflecting back our already established happiness and together we share it.

Namaste. The God in me sees the God in you.

<3, Rayna (the Muse! ^_^)

The “Grateful Dead” November 9, 2009

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With Halloween past and Thanksgiving approaching this topic seems most appropriate. Halloween is the festival of the deal, a time for remembering with love, those who came before us. Thanksgiving is a time of appreciation and gratitude.

During a festival the purpose is celebration. This is the time of appreciation and gratitude. As your loved-ones who have passed looks on from non-physical, which do you think they would rather see: Your family happy to be remembering them so wonderfully and having a good time holding them in your thoughts and honoring them? Or looking sad and forgetting how to be happy. Which do you think? Which do you think those who have passed could come closer to and connect to? You must stay true to your happy nature.

A celebration, a festival, is an opportunity. It is an opportunity to remember and appreciate the cause for the celebration. If we are to feel bad about the cause of the celebration, we are only doing ourselves a strong disservice and we are not honoring our memories. There is no room for sadness. It has a place only to show you that you must get back to happy and that you have strayed from your path. But once you realize that it is very selfish to miss someone, then you will see how you are disconnecting yourself from where that spirit is. When you disconnect, you become very sad. That is your emotional guidance system telling you that you are going far in the wrong direction, away from your passed loved-one’s spirit. You can think about them, but thinking about how sad you are is not the same as thinking about them, and it is certainly not honoring them. Missing, or to miss, is feeling lack, missing something like a piece is gone and separate… as though something could ever possibly be separate and not whole. There is no reality of separateness. Your loved-one is there even after they have passed on, and the more sadness you feel, the further from them you feel you are. It is an illusion that you are not One. A delusion that you are missing a piece of you.

You say that you “can not believe he/she is gone” because he/she is not gone. In your heart you now this to be true. No one is gone because we in reality are all One. We can not separate.

To stop the celebrating will make it harder, don’t you think? How can you be in alignment with the spirit of celebration when you refuse to participate in the glory of it? Why not celebrate in happiness with your deceased loved-ones there, in spirit. Just because someone is not physical does not mean they do not exist. They do exist! God exists and expresses as all of us and through all of us. Our bodies are mere vessels. Beautiful they may be, but illusory vessels they are, meant to express Truth through it. The True Beauty. God IS. God is the Source and we are always with the source and we can not separate from our Source. When we live here physically we are more like asleep. God did not put us to sleep. God wants to wake us up! To wake us all up to remember we are One in God. We can live physically and know what we really are. How can this be sad? It is beautiful and exemplifies the beauty of how close your loved-one is to you.

Don’t push your loved-ones away with sadness. And yes you can push them, or anyone away with sadness. Look inside yourself for comfort and show the others how you’re deeply calm and happy. You will find others to be most comforting, then. When you are sad you attract sadness and sadness in others, likewise those who are happier will fall away from you. So bring them back with your design of happiness. Create it. Express God through you and celebrate. Be comforted and you’ll find others to become very comforting to you.

Moving like a speeding angel toward $200,000!!!!! November 6, 2009

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I am re-posting this in my blog because I want more people to benefit from it. This is such a common wish. Hope this helps you….

Posed Wish:

“I am intending at least for $200,000. to manifest in my accounts, this indigo has to be free!

If I am truly supported by the universe, angels, I am intending to manifest a nest egg of money.
so I can quit my job, and be free. Free to work on other projects. I need a break.

a much needed break
I need to go on vacation

I need a massage everyday for awhile….

I don’t like to conform and go to work everyday, omgosh
you should see me some days, it is hard.

If I had one wish, it would be for money, so I can be free and concentrate on me for awhile
my body I neglected
my house
my organizaional skills…

If I had one wish,… if I ever needed time off, it is now”

My Answer:

Hello …..! Whatawish! I would like to help you by simply rewording what you have said in a way that would help you to move in that direction:

If I am truly supported by the universe and angels–and I do believe that not only am I supported but I am projecting the universe into it’s very existence and all that I perceive to be angelic, which is the only reality that there can be, and angels are my own projected representation of what I remember to be my true source– I am hereby intending to manifest from beyond my own mind: TRUE LOVE to be created by me, within my physical experience, in the form of physical dollars in the amount of $200,000, which I am so very thankful to appear to have and to utilize creatively. I know that this money, manifest, will come to me as quickly as I release all tension and neediness. I know that I am the master chooser of my existence and since I know that is it nothing more than my own “movie” which I am already watching from the non-place of my higher self, I know that I have already scripted my movie to now make this decision and therefore if I remain focused and relaxed, and because it is already done, I will receive it as planned. I am the abundance of God Source, and I created an energy universe which I have at my physical level perceived to be reality, however it is changing always, so how real can it be? Not very, and therefore it can’t really change me into something I am not, something so false as imperfection or lacking. I will relax knowing that the pressure is perceived and is not real.

My ever expanding list of ways in which I am already envisioning with every ounce of my being (and understanding that in reality I am immeasurable) the ways that I will/am/and have been already enjoying my timeless abundance:

1. I am free to work on whatever projects I so choose, when I choose. I am doing this always. Nothing I haven’t scripted has ever happened to me. I choose my paths whether or not I am doing so from a knowing place or not.

2. Relaxing and feeling peace. It’s what I do best and I am a natural at this. I am on a natural high because it is my natural state of being.

3. I am traveling to wherever I imagine and enjoying the new experiences at every moment. I travel in the mind to my imagined life here on my imagined planet. I know that there can not be a universe without mind entering into it as Quantum Physics explains. If I can travel to this lifetime to where I think I physically am right now in my mind, then my imagining alone will manifest my physical journey to any perceived place that I choose to make physically real for myself. After all, any “place” that I have only read about, or heard about, or seen pictures of, but never actually experienced physically, doesn’t truly exist for me unless I am presently focused there physically. Where else can I go but in my mind? I am a worldly traveler. I am EVERYWHERE. I am NO-PLACE. In reality I just AM. In my false reality I think I’ll go to Hawaii next.

4. A massage feels so wonderful and I enjoy the feeling it gives me although I already feel so wonderful and limber. Ahhhhhhhhh…..

5. I am an eternally free spirit and with my money I am able to act this out on the physical level.

6. My days are easy, breezy and carefree. So are my nights.

7. I focus wisely and time disappears while I am here, now, eternal.

8. I love and appreciate my body for what I have created it to be, and I know it is a temporary vessel which I care for while I am focused upon it. It is my own creation.

9. My home as my home for my body, is also of my creation and I realize and appreciate the fact that I can see it for what ever I want it to be. It will reflect only what I choose to see in it. It exist for and by me.

10. I am organized and skilled in arranging my virtual creations and my manifestations. I realize that the objects around me do not exist in any way that I do not perceive them to exist. I change my arrangement of physical forms and objects as I alter my perception of them. I am the owner of my outward projection. In addition and likewise, my brothers and sisters in form (including other people and beings) will also only reflect my vision of them to me, and so I see us all interacting as one. With only One to organize, it gets very easy! One is always in IT’s rightful place and in perfect order.

11. Time is but a fleeting unreality. For I am eternal and in Eternity there is only forever-ness. There is no-thing. Time and space are therefore of my own projection and I can choose to view it linearly when I feel it meets my current focus and I can turn it off afterward and just ‘be’. All is now. I understand that because I am presently focused physically, I am but dreaming that I am suspended in a time-zone, but it is only my dream. I am bound not. If I were to lose the sense of linear time all at once it would be more of a shock than I choose to experience and therefore I appreciate my linear structure until I release the idea altogether and experience it no longer. I know that the clock is but a myth made up by yours truly. Therefore I am no slave to time, I never have been, I never will be, because of course past and future tenses do not even exist in reality, and in the present there is only NOW.

12. I am freely enjoying my first deliberate $200,000 and I know my next will come that much faster as a result of my faith. In fact, multi-dimensionally, I am enjoying all of my $200,000’s at once because all is happening NOW. My “past” $200,000’s and my “future” $200,000’s are all NOW and are also therefore present. It is no big deal, there is no limit to me and no limit to what I manifest, there is no limit to my worth. I am worthy. I know that money, nor anything physical for that “matter”, could ever be the road to happiness or sadness. I am happy non-physically, and therefore I can be no other way physically, unless I forget that truth. Then I only shade the light temporarily, but the light is what remains when the shades fade. I choose to see only the light. My light. I AM that light. I experience only the light I AM non-physically. I translate that physically as abundance in all areas of my projected physical lifetime.

God Is.

Love,
SongDancer — Rayna

My Own “So in Love” Web Page Background Art – Free to Share and Use!!! Have Fun with This One! November 6, 2009

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Hey friends!

Here is a neat “So in Love” web page background that I created and I am posting it here for free for you, and if you like it and want to use it, please do! (Right click choose “view image” so you can see the full image properly in your browser window, and then save it how you normally save images. Right click and choose “save image”.) If you want to use it but don’t know how to grab it from here, email me and I’ll email it to you. Please let me know if you need help -I don’t charge much to make it into a functioning site. But for those of you who know how to do it yourself, have a go! Thanks for accepting my gift and have fun! Let me know how you use it if you want to show me, I’d love to see!

Here it is and feel free to pass it around, it’s for sharing:

PS: Let me know if I can help you in any way, shape or form or…. formless!!!! I can, remember I am your Muse! ;oD

Your Muse and Princess of Creative Inspiration,
~Rayna
Tarot, LOA and other Readings, and Intuitive Guidance

Getting Back Your Old Love / Timing of LOA November 6, 2009

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Sometimes there are very general questions that I answer knowing that it may benefit another to view the response. This is a typical question. Please enjoy my response.

The question was:

“Can I use the LOA to get my love back? Can I use the law of attraction to attract a particular person to love me? How can I do that?..One thing I’m sure of now is that we’ll be together a again.When and How? I really don’t know.
Also, how can I use the law of attraction to get what i want to be done WHEN i want it to be done???
I just started with The Law Of Attraction two weeks ago, but I wanna learn it fast and master it fast.”

My response was:

Hello Dear Friend,

You have always used the Law of Attraction, or rather it has been working WITH you all along. You may have become aware of it and it’s function 2 weeks ago but you have already been “doing” it and using “it” unknowingly.

To get a lover back: Do you suppose that this lover and yourself, may not be a match? A “match” means being alike in vibration. If you have separated it is because you are not in the same place both literally and figuratively. In order to get someone to come to you, you must match their vibration. In order to match someone’s vibration you must either raise or lower your own vibration. If you come to find that you must lower your vibration in order to match someone else, it is NEVER worth it. You will be sacrificing everything (your purpose in life) and this is not a good idea. If this person is vibrating more positively than you, then surely raise your own vibration. This may not bring you the same exact person unless you become a mirror match (someone most alike you in vibration), but you will attract someone who is. This new match will be much more satisfying and pleasing to you whether you realize it at this moment or not.

If you want to make something happen at a certain time: One thing you can do is set a date in your prayer, notes, intention, spell…. however you are performing your offering of wanting to the universe or God, or whomever you believe to be the One. You must realize that the timing is not always going to be exact only because you would have to monitor too many things and that is not your job. Your job is to ASK. The result is: All is GIVEN in time. We live linearly, but all is happening NOW. When it happens it will also be NOW. Therefore you must line up with the ASKING not the TIMING. That means you must focus on what you are asking and be at one with that subject. Become it. Be certain of it’s coming and of it’s arrival. Do not doubt. Do not rely on the date because it will spawn doubt. Or if it doesn’t spawn a shred of doubt even in your sub conscious, there you have total control. This takes practice and ultimate belief and commitment. Once you are in alignment you are THERE. It is HERE. Either way you look at it, it’s the same thing. But in the Big Picture, YOU are going TO what you want vibrationally, it isn’t really coming to YOU. That’s right. It’s the other way around. Hence you come together. In perfect, ideal, absolute timing.

If you want more information, or help, please contact me. I do readings, create spells and affirmations and can assist you.

Your Muse,
Rayna

How To Recognize Your Soulmate When You See Them!! November 4, 2009

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Question:
How do you know when you meet the right person or your soulmate? What do people feel? It is like love at first sight?? I don´t believe I have ever had feel that feeling.. Did you know it when you saw the person for the first time? Did you know he/she was the one after you dated? How does it happen?? It is like in the movies??

My Answer:

The movies is always a tricky subject because movies have to have conflict in order to tell a story. When there is no conflict, then you feel what you are talking about wanting to feel. So I would say it is not like the movies.

There are many soulmates, in fact all people and all living things are soulmates because we are all One. The way you feel when you look at the person that best reflects the best you, is the one you are referring to. Remember that when you feel that light shining upon you and it warms your heart, makes you feel absolutely beautiful, and as though you could do no wrong, THEN you are looking into a positive mirror reflection of yourself within another person-or expressed as another person. This is the feeling you mean to discuss here. What you are actually feeling, seeing and understanding is the true image of what you know you really are. It is another shadow of the beauty and truth that you really are. It has nothing to do with the other person, as they could fall out of favor at any time. It is the feeling of God/Source/Truth/Eternity that you obtain a glimpse of when you wear those rose colored glasses. When someone showers you with love (true love, unconditional and unrestrained) then what you are feeling is the connection to your Source. You are in alignment with something that is closest to what you really are (without actually dying and “going there”). Likewise when you shower someone with unconditional love, then they feel the connection of Source through your aim. Like cupid’s arrow. You are both responsible for the transaction of this energy. So don’t look for that “person” who will introduce you to a certain feeling that you determine you lack without them. Look for your true Self and a person who will appear to feel as you are feeling, will in fact-appear to you in your life experience. This person will seem Heaven-sent. Why? Because technically you designed them in Heaven by reaching a Heaven-minded vibration and then attracting someone in like-vibration. Literally expressing your Self as a mirror image, in this case, as a mate.

Until you are connected to You, you will connect with people who are also disconnected from You. If someone seems “right” it is because you are “right”. You are getting matches all the time. How connected are you to You? To that extent, those you meet will be just that connected to you. (I am not speaking about separateness, I am speaking about alignment. We are all One whether in alignment or not with who/what we really are.)

For more information on love and relationships, readings, or any topic, feel free to contact me.

Your Muse,
Rayna