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That’s What Friends Are For November 22, 2009

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Here is some information on the subject of friends.

I know friendship is a touchy subject in a world where people rely on other people in order to feel good about themselves. A lot of the time people want to know how they can determine whether their friends are ‘real’ or phony. In a world of illusion, what is real?

Well my friends, Love is real.

So what are friends for? Let’s talk about this.

I see how friends can become an important subject, however exactly where is the need to discuss friendship coming from? If this type of question haunts you, then we are at a level where we can now hear and better understand the role of a friend.

Why spend so much time and effort on other people in how they relate to and feel towards us? The only thing we need to look at when it comes to other people is how they mirror us, and in doing so, we are given clear guidance in order to navigate ourselves. Everyone we know, we have attracted and created from the inside out for us to experience ourselves through.

A “fair weather friend” is in alignment to us at that time. A “bad weather friend” is there because they are in alignment with us at that time. We never really have to go further than that because the rest is getting into details that are illusory.

When we ask, someone is there to answer. But we’ll only be able to experience from the place where we are emotionally, spiritually and mentally. So only people who are also where we are emotionally, spiritually and mentally will be heard and only to the extent that we allow ourselves to hear them. If you are having a bad day, then someone will come to you who is able to hear your down perspective. That means that that person must be at that down perspective as well otherwise they will have to lower or raise their perspective in order to hear you and provide a presence in your experience at that time. That person will never lift us up or bring us further down unless we are fully allowing their influence. No one can control our perspective but we may allow influence. It is best to remain clear and unaffected. We should never expect someone else to meet us at our level. There are plenty of other versions of the mirror who will reflect back to us exactly where we are. There is no need to force the issue or attempt to control the perspective or level of another person. It is us personally who must change if we want our friends to change.

In order to attract only fulfilling and satisfying feeling relationships, we must already be fulfilled and satisfied. We only share in the happiness and love that is our true nature. We do not create that happiness, although many of us do resist it from time to time. If we can purposefully live with a full allowing of fulfillment which is our true nature, only those who are fulfilled and satisfied will find us (or really be created by us). When we look into these friends a.k.a. mirrors we say, “They make me happy.” But they do not. They are merely reflecting back our already established happiness and together we share it.

Namaste. The God in me sees the God in you.

<3, Rayna (the Muse! ^_^)

The “Grateful Dead” November 9, 2009

Posted by raynatamarin in Spirits and Afterlife.
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With Halloween past and Thanksgiving approaching this topic seems most appropriate. Halloween is the festival of the deal, a time for remembering with love, those who came before us. Thanksgiving is a time of appreciation and gratitude.

During a festival the purpose is celebration. This is the time of appreciation and gratitude. As your loved-ones who have passed looks on from non-physical, which do you think they would rather see: Your family happy to be remembering them so wonderfully and having a good time holding them in your thoughts and honoring them? Or looking sad and forgetting how to be happy. Which do you think? Which do you think those who have passed could come closer to and connect to? You must stay true to your happy nature.

A celebration, a festival, is an opportunity. It is an opportunity to remember and appreciate the cause for the celebration. If we are to feel bad about the cause of the celebration, we are only doing ourselves a strong disservice and we are not honoring our memories. There is no room for sadness. It has a place only to show you that you must get back to happy and that you have strayed from your path. But once you realize that it is very selfish to miss someone, then you will see how you are disconnecting yourself from where that spirit is. When you disconnect, you become very sad. That is your emotional guidance system telling you that you are going far in the wrong direction, away from your passed loved-one’s spirit. You can think about them, but thinking about how sad you are is not the same as thinking about them, and it is certainly not honoring them. Missing, or to miss, is feeling lack, missing something like a piece is gone and separate… as though something could ever possibly be separate and not whole. There is no reality of separateness. Your loved-one is there even after they have passed on, and the more sadness you feel, the further from them you feel you are. It is an illusion that you are not One. A delusion that you are missing a piece of you.

You say that you “can not believe he/she is gone” because he/she is not gone. In your heart you now this to be true. No one is gone because we in reality are all One. We can not separate.

To stop the celebrating will make it harder, don’t you think? How can you be in alignment with the spirit of celebration when you refuse to participate in the glory of it? Why not celebrate in happiness with your deceased loved-ones there, in spirit. Just because someone is not physical does not mean they do not exist. They do exist! God exists and expresses as all of us and through all of us. Our bodies are mere vessels. Beautiful they may be, but illusory vessels they are, meant to express Truth through it. The True Beauty. God IS. God is the Source and we are always with the source and we can not separate from our Source. When we live here physically we are more like asleep. God did not put us to sleep. God wants to wake us up! To wake us all up to remember we are One in God. We can live physically and know what we really are. How can this be sad? It is beautiful and exemplifies the beauty of how close your loved-one is to you.

Don’t push your loved-ones away with sadness. And yes you can push them, or anyone away with sadness. Look inside yourself for comfort and show the others how you’re deeply calm and happy. You will find others to be most comforting, then. When you are sad you attract sadness and sadness in others, likewise those who are happier will fall away from you. So bring them back with your design of happiness. Create it. Express God through you and celebrate. Be comforted and you’ll find others to become very comforting to you.

How To Recognize Your Soulmate When You See Them!! November 4, 2009

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Question:
How do you know when you meet the right person or your soulmate? What do people feel? It is like love at first sight?? I donĀ“t believe I have ever had feel that feeling.. Did you know it when you saw the person for the first time? Did you know he/she was the one after you dated? How does it happen?? It is like in the movies??

My Answer:

The movies is always a tricky subject because movies have to have conflict in order to tell a story. When there is no conflict, then you feel what you are talking about wanting to feel. So I would say it is not like the movies.

There are many soulmates, in fact all people and all living things are soulmates because we are all One. The way you feel when you look at the person that best reflects the best you, is the one you are referring to. Remember that when you feel that light shining upon you and it warms your heart, makes you feel absolutely beautiful, and as though you could do no wrong, THEN you are looking into a positive mirror reflection of yourself within another person-or expressed as another person. This is the feeling you mean to discuss here. What you are actually feeling, seeing and understanding is the true image of what you know you really are. It is another shadow of the beauty and truth that you really are. It has nothing to do with the other person, as they could fall out of favor at any time. It is the feeling of God/Source/Truth/Eternity that you obtain a glimpse of when you wear those rose colored glasses. When someone showers you with love (true love, unconditional and unrestrained) then what you are feeling is the connection to your Source. You are in alignment with something that is closest to what you really are (without actually dying and “going there”). Likewise when you shower someone with unconditional love, then they feel the connection of Source through your aim. Like cupid’s arrow. You are both responsible for the transaction of this energy. So don’t look for that “person” who will introduce you to a certain feeling that you determine you lack without them. Look for your true Self and a person who will appear to feel as you are feeling, will in fact-appear to you in your life experience. This person will seem Heaven-sent. Why? Because technically you designed them in Heaven by reaching a Heaven-minded vibration and then attracting someone in like-vibration. Literally expressing your Self as a mirror image, in this case, as a mate.

Until you are connected to You, you will connect with people who are also disconnected from You. If someone seems “right” it is because you are “right”. You are getting matches all the time. How connected are you to You? To that extent, those you meet will be just that connected to you. (I am not speaking about separateness, I am speaking about alignment. We are all One whether in alignment or not with who/what we really are.)

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Your Muse,
Rayna