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That’s What Friends Are For November 22, 2009

Posted by raynatamarin in Relationships.
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Here is some information on the subject of friends.

I know friendship is a touchy subject in a world where people rely on other people in order to feel good about themselves. A lot of the time people want to know how they can determine whether their friends are ‘real’ or phony. In a world of illusion, what is real?

Well my friends, Love is real.

So what are friends for? Let’s talk about this.

I see how friends can become an important subject, however exactly where is the need to discuss friendship coming from? If this type of question haunts you, then we are at a level where we can now hear and better understand the role of a friend.

Why spend so much time and effort on other people in how they relate to and feel towards us? The only thing we need to look at when it comes to other people is how they mirror us, and in doing so, we are given clear guidance in order to navigate ourselves. Everyone we know, we have attracted and created from the inside out for us to experience ourselves through.

A “fair weather friend” is in alignment to us at that time. A “bad weather friend” is there because they are in alignment with us at that time. We never really have to go further than that because the rest is getting into details that are illusory.

When we ask, someone is there to answer. But we’ll only be able to experience from the place where we are emotionally, spiritually and mentally. So only people who are also where we are emotionally, spiritually and mentally will be heard and only to the extent that we allow ourselves to hear them. If you are having a bad day, then someone will come to you who is able to hear your down perspective. That means that that person must be at that down perspective as well otherwise they will have to lower or raise their perspective in order to hear you and provide a presence in your experience at that time. That person will never lift us up or bring us further down unless we are fully allowing their influence. No one can control our perspective but we may allow influence. It is best to remain clear and unaffected. We should never expect someone else to meet us at our level. There are plenty of other versions of the mirror who will reflect back to us exactly where we are. There is no need to force the issue or attempt to control the perspective or level of another person. It is us personally who must change if we want our friends to change.

In order to attract only fulfilling and satisfying feeling relationships, we must already be fulfilled and satisfied. We only share in the happiness and love that is our true nature. We do not create that happiness, although many of us do resist it from time to time. If we can purposefully live with a full allowing of fulfillment which is our true nature, only those who are fulfilled and satisfied will find us (or really be created by us). When we look into these friends a.k.a. mirrors we say, “They make me happy.” But they do not. They are merely reflecting back our already established happiness and together we share it.

Namaste. The God in me sees the God in you.

<3, Rayna (the Muse! ^_^)

It is Nervousness or Butterflies in your Stomach? Positive or Negative Emotion? November 6, 2009

Posted by raynatamarin in Feelings.
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Hey guys,

Have you considered the difference between butterflies in your stomach and nervousness? Which is worse? Probably neither. The moment that you label something as good or bad makes it have that power which you gave it. You said it is good so it is good for you. You said it is is bad so it is bad for you. Nothing is good or bad until you give it that energy and then continue to feed it the same energy so that it grows. So if you decide that you love that rush in whatever form it takes then you can call it good for you. If it makes you uncomfortable, chances are you’re going to dub it as bad for you. The moment that the very rush or high of going on stage is gone… who would remain in love with performing? Roller coasters would be out of business too.

Think about what it is that is making you resort to a feeling of nervousness. Is it impending danger? Is it not really dangerous at all? In that moment read your guidance and know what it is telling you. Instead of judging it, use it. Leave it label-less and it will be what it is.

Love and the thrills of life,
Muse~Rayna