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How To Lose a Friend (On Purpose, the Right Way) December 10, 2009

Posted by raynatamarin in Relationships.
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I was asked a very interesting question recently. The woman said…

“How do I cut ties with a friend who has been a best friend of mine for about 5 years, but annoys me like crazy, and is simply bad for my health, but is a core member of my favorite group of friends and is a loyal customer of my business?”

My response:

Because you met people through that person doesn’t mean you need to remain knowing that person. You don’t “owe” them and they do not “own” you because of this. If you had to choose between him buying from you or putting up with all of this, which would you choose?

She replied:

I want him out. But he’s a great person, a great artist, but I just can’t be around him anymore.

My response:

If you are aware of the way we attract like vibrations, then you know Law of Attraction so this should come as no surprise. Everyone is a mirror. The things we most like and most dislike about others are usually qualities we share. If you can locate the part of you that is most like his good side and most like his not so good side, then you can begin to strengthen the good matching parts of yourself and let go of the parts that match the things you don’t like to see in him. Because of Law of Attraction and the Laws of Manifestation and the nature of reality, this will cause you to draw to you more of the qualities you like, and become free of those qualities you don’t want to encounter from anyone.

You may have outgrown him. Which means he seems more distant in now many ways–the ways in which you clash and are vibrating in different places. But he doesn’t seem distant enough for your taste in the physical sense yet because he yet lingers in your life experience. You see, he is going to fizzle away if you stick to growing your best qualities and letting the rest go. If he isn’t choosing to grow at the rate you are, and in the direction you are choosing to go, then that’s life and you’ll have to be at peace with him not being around. Would it be relatively easier to not call or text him anymore, or the like? If so, then you can just not take those actions. Following your bliss means doing what feels good and right for you. No one requires you to put bliss on the back burner at anytime, and if they do, then they were present in your life to teach you this lesson. So be grateful to them and you can let them go in peace.

She said:

In the past I have accidentally not called or communicated with him for a period of time and he would say “Why are you ignoring me?”and then at parties he starts being weird around me acting like we have to make up or something and says things like “You’re the best” and I just want to get away.

My response:

The best thing you can do is not be anything like him. Opposites do not attract, they only seek for and draw to them what they desire to become. You want to be something more and so leave out the rest and you’ll find only those like you, around you. The rest will be drawn away from you naturally. You never have to have “that talk” or “break up”. It will work out by design. Your design.

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That’s What Friends Are For November 22, 2009

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Here is some information on the subject of friends.

I know friendship is a touchy subject in a world where people rely on other people in order to feel good about themselves. A lot of the time people want to know how they can determine whether their friends are ‘real’ or phony. In a world of illusion, what is real?

Well my friends, Love is real.

So what are friends for? Let’s talk about this.

I see how friends can become an important subject, however exactly where is the need to discuss friendship coming from? If this type of question haunts you, then we are at a level where we can now hear and better understand the role of a friend.

Why spend so much time and effort on other people in how they relate to and feel towards us? The only thing we need to look at when it comes to other people is how they mirror us, and in doing so, we are given clear guidance in order to navigate ourselves. Everyone we know, we have attracted and created from the inside out for us to experience ourselves through.

A “fair weather friend” is in alignment to us at that time. A “bad weather friend” is there because they are in alignment with us at that time. We never really have to go further than that because the rest is getting into details that are illusory.

When we ask, someone is there to answer. But we’ll only be able to experience from the place where we are emotionally, spiritually and mentally. So only people who are also where we are emotionally, spiritually and mentally will be heard and only to the extent that we allow ourselves to hear them. If you are having a bad day, then someone will come to you who is able to hear your down perspective. That means that that person must be at that down perspective as well otherwise they will have to lower or raise their perspective in order to hear you and provide a presence in your experience at that time. That person will never lift us up or bring us further down unless we are fully allowing their influence. No one can control our perspective but we may allow influence. It is best to remain clear and unaffected. We should never expect someone else to meet us at our level. There are plenty of other versions of the mirror who will reflect back to us exactly where we are. There is no need to force the issue or attempt to control the perspective or level of another person. It is us personally who must change if we want our friends to change.

In order to attract only fulfilling and satisfying feeling relationships, we must already be fulfilled and satisfied. We only share in the happiness and love that is our true nature. We do not create that happiness, although many of us do resist it from time to time. If we can purposefully live with a full allowing of fulfillment which is our true nature, only those who are fulfilled and satisfied will find us (or really be created by us). When we look into these friends a.k.a. mirrors we say, “They make me happy.” But they do not. They are merely reflecting back our already established happiness and together we share it.

Namaste. The God in me sees the God in you.

<3, Rayna (the Muse! ^_^)

Teaching LOA, Weight Loss, Smoking, Giant Walking Cupcakes!!!!! November 6, 2009

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There were some very interesting questions asked tonight on one of my networks!

Questions:
Why is LOA not taught in schools, but we are taught about calories making us fat and how hard we have to work to burn them off? If we can use LOA, why do they sell us weight loss plans? If I create my reality, can I make smoking be good for me? If I can create anything I want, can I create a giant walking cupcake and see it actually walking down the street?

My Answers:
Here goes!!! 😀 This just in! LOA Not Taught In Schools, High Calorie Weight Loss, Smoking Health Benefits and Giant Walking Cupcakes! Did I forget anything? LOL! Actually these are great questions! Ok here are the answers:

Why are so many things taught while LOA isn’t
There are many people out there who are not in alignment with hearing about LOA. There are many people out there who believe that hard work equals results and money. So they come up with ingenious ways to perpetuate the concept of working hard (even working out!) and making money off of these concepts time and time again. They will tell you (or rather SELL you) the suggestion that you are too fat. Then they will ‘pound’ this idea into your head (and waist line) with crafty headlines, pictures of the ideal body vs. the “unattractive” contrast, and slick words to ‘butter you up’ to their ideals. They aim to perpetuate competition because they know of nothing else. When you believe you’re too fat, for example, because they have been ‘feeding’ you the suggestions, sometimes subliminally in thick, juicy words, they will then SELL you their solution to your PROBLEM. A perfect recipe for perpetual cycles of untruth. And when people buy into it, that’s the icing on the cake. So first off, many of those who are teaching others (schools, friends and parents) aren’t in alignment with knowing LOA and because they are not in alignment with knowing truth, they perpetuate outward thinking like blame, competition and the like. If they believe that that is how things work, then they aren’t in alignment with the idea of LOA. Everyone comes to the truth eventually and it is not anyone’s job to enlighten the entire world in any way shape or form. To force anyone to learn, do or be anything that they are not yet ready to accept, then you have war, religious extremists and in every other way, a pushing against. The truth is inside each of us and waits dormant until it is the answer to the RIGHT QUESTIONS.

How to eat what you want and look and feel great at the same time
Whatever you put in your mouth after condemning it as bad for you, is bad for you and will make you fat and unhealthy. Instead say grace or give thanks in your own way for the nutritious delight you are about to partake in the eating of. If we respect our food the way most animals do, then we will keep our natural body shape and weight. Whatever is natural for our bodies. There is no more or less beautiful weight and shape for a body. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Not everyone needs to look the same. Where you think you are beautiful, there are are beautiful.

Smoking is neutral until you say it is good or bad
It is so embedded in the collective human consciousness as a bad, harmful, deadly and maybe even an illegal(in some cases) thing to do, that it may be quite a bit of strength for one to determine this all to be wrong. Some people can easily throw out the notions of others. There are plenty of things we can change our minds about and our body follows suit. Our reality will change. Remember that it can change in unplanned ways, meaning, you may be introduced to a smoking substance that is good for you. Or it is by theory quite possible to change your own reaction to smoking, say, cigarettes. There would need to be no ounce of doubt in the mind of the smoker in order for this to come to pass. It’s possible, yes.

Giant walking cupcakes come to town
In truth this is possible and considered high magick. You would be dealing with Thoughtforms. This means creating from your mind a being who manifests as physical without being born in the traditional sense. Thoughtforms if not known how to deal with them, release them (send them back from whence they came) can become mischievous and malicious. This is a subject that is not dealt with by anyone other than very high priests, elders, witches, shamans, and others who are in a position to perform high magick. Not a light subject. Yes it is possible.

On another note you can make a mechanical giant walking cupcake. Envision it, draw up the blueprints and have it built. That’s also concept to manifestation.

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Did I cover everything? ;o)
If you want further information, don’t hesitate to contact me.

Your Muse,
Rayna